Last week, our new Coastal Bend branch donated their seventh vehicle to our newest client, whom we’re calling “D.” She shared her amazing story with their local paper, the Victoria Advocate…
When many people might have given up, “D” gritted her teeth and did what she had to in order to make ends meet. Without a car or reliable public transportation, she resigned herself to walk three miles to work and back to ensure care for her 33-year-old special needs daughter. “D gives the impression of one who’s happy-go-lucky but, she has a lot of weight on her shoulders,” Elena Soto, D’s sponsor for OnRamp Coastal Bend, said (pictured above, center, along with OnRamp Coastal Bend volunteers).
For three years, D hasn’t had a car to get to work, to get to the store and to take her daughter to doctor appointments. She’s caught rides from friends to get her daughter to Victoria for her medical needs, ridden a bike to get to the store and woken up two hours early to make the three-mile walk to work.
“It’s been devastating not having a vehicle,” D said. “I lost 67 pounds in the couples of months I walked to and from work.”
That all changed on Friday when OnRamp Coastal Bend gifted her a car. Soto advocated on D’s behalf to the non-profit to help get a set of keys in her hand. This is the seventh vehicle OnRamp Coastal Bend has given away.
“This means the world to me,” D said. “For people that are struggling, this helps, and I know it will help me.”
D has always been there to cheer on her daughter. Whether it was on the sidelines of the football field on Friday nights as her daughter cheered and tumbled, to the wooden flooring of the gym as she spiked a volleyball over the net, D supported her daughter’s effort. But then came the doctor’s office visits when her daughter was diagnosed with a rare bone disease, and a staunch reality set in.
“We never got along when she was younger,” D said. “Kids don’t always see everything you do for them until something happens.”
Since her daughter’s diagnosis, D said she and her daughter have grown closer and their relationship has strengthened. For the past six years, D has been both a mother and a caregiver. Instead of just grocery runs and doctor’s visits, the two women are looking forward to hitting the road and spending quality time together as mother and daughter now that a car has been provided for them.
“We’re gonna go to Goliad and Gonzalez to explore and learn more about Texas history. Hopefully, we will go and see the Alamo in San Antonio,” D said.
On mornings when it seemed impossible to get out of bed, on days when it would have been easier to give up, D indeed got up. It was not only her daughter that kept her going but the love D has for her patients as a home health worker. After years of caring for others, someone has taken care of D, helping her not only get to work in a more timely fashion but also enabling D to give her daughter the freedom she deserves.
“Moms, there is help out there. You just have to ask,” D said.